
Dating abuse can happen to anyone, at any age, no matter what race or religion they are, and no matter what their level of education or economical background. Dating abuse also occurs in same sex relationships.
What do we mean when we talk about dating abuse?
Dating abuse isn't an argument every once in a while, or a bad mood after a bad day. Dating abuse (or Relationship Abuse) is a pattern of controlling behavior that someone uses against a girlfriend or boyfriend.
Abuse can cause injury and even death, but it doesn't have to be physical. It can include verbal and emotional abuse - constant insults, isolation from family and friends, name calling, controlling what someone wears-and it can also include sexual abuse.
Find out if you're being abused
If something about your relationship scares you, take the most important quiz of your life.
Are you being abused?
Find out if you're being abusive
If you are concerned that you may be abusing your girlfriend or boyfriend, ask yourself these questions.
Are you abusive?
True teen stories of dating abuse
Read real stories of abusive relationships from real teenagers who were there.
Teens talk about abuse
What makes a healthy relationship?
These are some questions that may help you decide if your relationship is healthy or not.
Healthy relationships
The surprising facts of dating abuse
Truth is in the numbers. Discover startling facts about abusive relationships.
Dating abuse fast facts
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1 in 5 teens who have been in a serious relationship report being hit, slapped or pushed by a partner.

