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When a family member abuses their partner: photo of two young women, standing near a window; one has her hand on her head and the other is comforting the first woman by placing a hand on her arm

“My Family Member is Abusing Their Partner! What Do I Do?”

By Anitra, loveisrespect youth organizer

At loveisrespect, we talk a lot about how to support someone you care about if they are being abused. But what if the person you care about is the one who is being abusive toward their partner? What if they’re a member of your own family?

This can be such a difficult situation to deal with. You might love your family member, but you know that what they’re doing is harmful. You may not want to admit that it’s happening, or you may just feel like cutting them out of your life. These are totally normal reactions! Relationships with family members can be complicated, and if someone is behaving abusively, that makes things even more complicated.

It’s important to remember that you have the power to be an active bystander. Ultimately, your family member is the only person who can choose to stop the abuse, but there are a few things you can do to encourage them to behave in healthier ways.

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